This is a repeat of the same post I did in Dec 2022. I had to leave my existing employment all for the reason of a job fit. Suffered a slight depression and lost confidence. Mind you but I have 20 years of working experience and I take pride in everything that I do. To remind myself that this is the same situation I had a year ago subtract the mild depression, and I’m definitely in a better condition. I am just slightly sad that my income has to be paused once more due to a bloody re-org.

Fortunately or unfortunately, I had to deal with people who don’t use their brains for a bit. Mind my kurt-ness. At a point in time, your work should have some level of quality and not a fresh graduate quality. Using logic also doesn’t seem to be a norm for most people.

Regardless of the situation, you are in. Always be calm and alert. It is with a clear and calm mind that one can make a clear and concise decision about whatever you are doing. Easy to say but difficult to execute – Many may say. It takes time and eventually time will create this vacuum of space where you can resolve your issue and come to a consensus with your mind.

If staying away from social media helps, then do it. Be positive and talk to positive people. They will always shed light or rub some positivity of some sort. Remember that only with challenges and struggles, will you grow resilience and nurture your potential. Struggling is part of life and it is also the wonder of life as it allows one to realize, slow things down, and think about many things. The power of manifestation has been in the talks for many years. First of all, you have to believe in it, then you manifest with the thought, and finally the mentality. These are the powers of being able to think clearly.

With distractions out of the way, then things can work out. No matter how many baby steps, how much is the disappointment or expectation. It is a roller-coaster of events. There are things we all should say no to more often than not.

Naturally, we are all emotional human beings. That makes us what we are so you did not do anything wrong. I am not a great fan of social media. I don’t see it as a way to catch up with what my friends are doing. If it is my family, I would happily call or meet them, not follow their social media accounts.

Time will heal and will find a solution. It is a process that is daunting. If you are feeling it, you are not alone. Baby steps at a time. Meanwhile, find things that interest you or help your own growth. It may fuel into something great one day.

Merry Christmas, Happy Boxing Day and  Happy New Year. Indulge in some festive celebrations with some positivity.